A special moment of silence was held for Ashley at tonight’s inaugural Stars of Mzansi awards. We all still miss you so much, Ash.
A beautiful tribute!
It’s funny how we’ve all lost a lover,friend,family or someone but we never can get used to death.I cant say I know what the Callie family is going thru having lost a loved one myself because its different for everyone.
I’m praying to God to give you the strength to be able to accept and move on. We all love Lee Heinz and will miss her dearly on our screen. FAREWELL, FAREWELL!
aschley was NOT to blame.people magazine yesterday.
I’ve just bought the copy of the new PEOPLE Magazine and read the article of the 3-rd person, slightly involved in this senseless & tragic accident – whereby it PROVES that Ashley was N O T to blame. I never believed those articles that said Ashley was to blame and that she was in the wrong side of the road -and this article proves it. S Miss and Natalie Le Clue, please buy this magazine and give your feedback.
Also, check out the new YOU Magazine, there is a page of the Memorial Service – and there is some nice pics – especially one of Ashley’s boyfriend, Deyon, and his two kids… Terribly heartbreaking.
Ashley, we miss you so much, and your presence will be sorely, sorely missed.
Lauren, John, Deyon, Mr & Mrs Callie – My thoughts and prayers are still with you during this tragic time.
There are no words i can say to soften the sorrow,lessen the stabbing pain that fills your hearts today, the days made up of “lost loneliness &heart-hurt” at pressent, but u will gain strength in the time ahead. Ash is on the tip of a cloud ,playing hide & seek with the stars
Hey Paul, what does it say?
Hey Natalie, it’s quite a long, detailed story. I’ll read it again in the morning, and shorten it and put it in a “comment”. Sorry, I’m still very, very upset about this tragedy, and haven’t quite come to terms with it. Hope u understand
lets not post on the site, rather send me you email address.
hey natalie…..how are you,sorry i am still trying to come to terms with this tragic……i dont know what to do next!
i still watch isidingo……she still on and looks stunning.
miss you ashley!
how are you…..i still miss her.
i know is strange…..but its my first role model that ive lost…..i miss her.
She will forever be your role model.
dear ash….my role model.
i know you r resting in peace……..but i miss you.
your absence is noticed.greatly.
love you lots
yup…natalie she will.
thanx for your support
notice to every ash fan
ash looked fab/stunning today on isidingo 4 mar.
Hi Natalie. Couldn’t agree with u more. This isn’t the place 2 discuss this. How can I 4ward u my address? S. Miss … I totally agree, she looked breathtaking! Hang in there, girl. It’s very difficult. I still can’t believe our Ash is gone … Paul :-S
Paul, add me on Facebook.
I too watch Isidingo everyday and the omnibus again on Sundays just to savour every moment she is still appearing on the screen.
Its still such a hard pill to swallow!
Another fan who cannot come to terms with her passing.
thanx paul glad to know i am not alnoe.
i miss her still………i know i got to hang in there,even if ist just for ashley…..south africas queen.
hey natalie…..how are you?
as i was saying…….for me its still hard,i try to keep laughing…….it helps sometimes.
once again she looked outstanding today.
Hey s. miss her. How are you doing? I’m doing okay. I bought the Ashley Callie Rose on the weekend from Ludwig’s Roses, and planted it yesterday. It was very touching and upsetting at the same time. But it’s a Beautiful Rose, and at least I’ll have it growing in my garden. I still can’t come to terms with this tragedy … And to think that it’s nearly a month ago … Sob!!!
Hope ur doing well.
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, & Deyon I’m praying for you today, everyday.
hey paul…….hey i am trying to battle it out, but is hard.
yup…time goes, i cant believe its been a month.
i think last friday was the last we saw her on t.v?
i was wondering…..i will watch today,but i think last friday was the last.
can anybody answer my question
why do the loved and good at heart people have to go?
Hey s.miss her! No one can answer that, because we don’t have the answers to why things like this happen to the people we love the most. But what I do think is that God takes the beautiful,vibrant and Prettiest “rose” first,because God’s rose garden is not complete without “only the best” and because they have done on earth what God wanted them to do, and God knows when the time is right. And Ashley was only the best! It’s still so tragic to think that she is gone… it’s almost a month now, and it still has not sunk in yet. We just have to keep on praying for her family, so God can grant them the strength to make it through this very hard time!! God bless and take care…
How brilliant was Ashley’s performance tonight? Did you watch, S. Miss Her? Especially the scene at the end, gave my goosebumps … She was really superb!!! I’m just dreading when her last episode will be I really missed her tonight …
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon, my thoughts and prayers are with you today, and everyday.
hey tanya….sorry for the late reply.
thanx….ur message ment a lot to me. i think i needed that.
yup….i agree with you.
thanx once again
keep in touch as we all need each other in a time like this.
sorry for the late reply.
yup…..i did watch her….loved both the scenes with her.
she looked so.so…so….so. i cant express it.
i wish there is no last scene, but i know that wont be possible.
keep in touch
Hey s. miss her. She was even so gracefully elegant, and brilliant 2nite as well, even if it was for a few minutes. I must say, since yesterday, I’ve been dreading 6:30pm as we don’t know when her last episode will be … And I must be honest, I don’t want that day to come … I miss her so, so much! You must see, my ASHLEY CALLIE Rose that I planted on Sunday, has already got One Rose that is starting to bloom!!! I am so happy & proud.
Definitely, we must keep in touch. And we must keep this site going on in Ashley’s Rememberance. And I must agree that we all need each other’s support during this time.
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids: My thoughts and prayers are still with you. We are missing Ash so so much ………………………
To all fellow ash fans. I was shattered when I heard of ashley’s death. I thought I am crazy to feel so sad about someone I have never met. Then I dicovered this site and realised that Im not the only one so devastated by her passing. Thanks to the creators of this site, you guys are stars!!!!! And thanks to the fans posting comments. I can’t believe she is gone…
Hey s.miss her! Thank you for the reply.
Yes, she looked amazing! It’s so sad that a beautiful woman like Ashley is gone! Let us keep on praying for her family. Hope you’re going strong!
God bless and take care…
Hey Paul and s.miss her! I thought that you might like to know; I went on the Time’s website and found out that Ashley’s last episode will be displayed at the end of this month. You can read it on: http://www.thetimes.co.za
It’s so tragic!!!
God bless and take care!
Thanks so much, Tanya. I really appreciate it. I’m still heartbroken and shattered by this tragedy! I refuse to believe she is gone ……………. But, I bought the Ashley Callie Rose over the weekend, and it’s made me feel a lot better. And I made a donation to the Animal Anti-Cruelty League. Did you see how brilliant she was on Monday Night? I had goosebumps.
Ashley, we miss you more and more as the days go by!!
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – you are in my thoughts and prayers, today and everyday.
Paul, you’re welcome.
She was absolutely brilliant on Monday night!! I had tears in my eyes, because everytime when I see her on Isidingo, I realise what a great emptiness there is going to be on the show without her! She made Isidingo what it is today!!
Let us keep on praying for her family, because losing someone like Ashley, is hard to accept.
Can you believe that it is almost a month now since she passed on? Yes, the ASHLEY CALLIE rose is absolutely beautiful!! May she forever rest in peace!
Ashley, you will never be forgotten!!!
God bless and take care…*
I cannot believe that it’s nearly been a month since our Darling Ash has been gone! I was also crying on Monday Night. And I’m dreading the “last” episode. “Isidingo” will never be the same. I keep thinking that we are in a bad dream, and cannot be woken up!!!
Ashley, we love you always, and are missing you so so so much!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids. God Bless, and I’m thinking of you always.
I know,neither can I. The reality of her death has not sunk in yet. Can you believe how short life actually is? And death comes so sudden,no matter how old you are. She was so young and beautiful, with a great future ahead of her!
May God give the Callie family, Deon and her Isidingo family, all the strength in the world! God will never leave you, just put your faith and trust in Him!
God bless Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deon and kids! You are in my prayers always!
Ashley, We love you and miss you every day!!
Thank you for making a differnce in our lives!!
paul, tanya & s.miss – i think reality will only sink in once she is no longer on isidingo – everytime i watch a scene with her in it, its as if i think “see, she is still with us”. what a terrible loss! hope all of you guys are doing okay.
Hi Ash Fan. Thanks for the support. I do agree with you – when I see her on TV, I pinch myself and say “it was all a bad dream, our Ash is still with us”. But … Alas … this is not meant to be.
I’m doing okay. As mentioned on previous posts, I bought the Ashley Callie Rose over the weekend, which is a comfort for me … And I’ve recorded the Mzansi Awards & the 3 talk with Noeleen tribute, as well as buying all the magazines that had tributes and photo’s of her. And that’s made me feel better. But it certainly doesn’t take the pain away I still say, if we as fans are feeling so destroyed, what is her family going through?
Thanks again for your thoughts, I really appreciate it!
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, my thoughts and prayers are with you today, everyday.
Hey Ash fan! Thank you for your support! Yes, I’m okay, thank you..just sad everytime I see her on tv, knowing she is gone forever.
Yes, I do think that’s when it will sink in…when we no longer see her on Isidingo! How sad is that!!:(
I agree with Paul…just think what her family is going through….! Gosh, this is really heartbreaking!! She is/was so amazing, if not, the best!! I don’t think I’m going to watch Isidingo after the last episode has been broadcast..
I mean…what is Isidingo without Lee Haines? NOTHING! She made it what it is today! What is South Africa going to be without Ashley Callie?!!
Why do some people get a second chance, but not Ashley?
May God help her family through this very difficult time! I pray for you: Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deyon & Kids…God will not let you wander alone..
Ashley, we miss you, girl! Still wish you were here!
If we could, we would bring you back to us!
God bless and take care..
Life is short!
hey tanya….thanx. hope you get this message.
thanx for letting me know! i can now prepare myself……its been hard.
i dont want to watch isidingo….but then at the same time dont want to miss it….for the sake of ashley!
once again thanx…..keep in touch
hey ash fan….thanx for ur message.
it does mean a lot to me……thanx
i and all of us got to keep strong!
strong…….only for ashley.
keep in touch
tanya…..i know what u mean.
its like the devils get a second chance and the angels none.
i dont know what to think no more.
oh……golly…miss her still
how are you doing?
do you know where is natalie(both).
i dont know.
i guess u are not looking forward to this end of the month…….me too!
keep in touch
Hey S.Miss her! Thanx once again for your message!
I don’t know what to think anymore, either! I know I should not say this, but I hate the people who did this!! But, we have to keep on praying for her family, for this is a very difficult time for them! It’s almost a month now…can you believe how time passed sice our dear Ashley passed on?
Still missing you, Ashley!!
God bless and take care…!
hey tanya .
how can those people get away like this!i mean whats more shocking is that their car was more damaged than ashley’s…..and they alive!
i wonder somtimes am i dreaming?
keep in touch
hey tanya….sorry hate to ask this question here..but do you hav a e-mail.
i would like to keep in touch with you….u have been a great support.
sorry i am not on facebook.
if not ….do not worry
Hey S.Miss her! No need to appologise.
Yes, I do have one. firstname.lastname@example.org
Would love to keep in touch with you!
Hey tanya and s.miss her. How are you guys doing? I am just looking at your comments – I read something REALLY disturbing on another site last night. Apparently one of the passengers in the Renault posted a comment on a “site paying tribute to ashley”. The short of it is that she blames Ash for the accident and, GET THIS, says that Ash didn’t deserve to die as she should be alive to see and take responsibility for the lives she has ruined!!!?!!! What the hell is that all about??!!!??!!!
It might be a fake comment or really someone in the other car, either way I think it is sick and if that person doesn’t want to honour the memory of the great Ashley Callie, it will come back to her.
Secondly, from the bottom of my heart I believe the accident was not Ash’s fault – it has been my experience that the people/person causing the accident normally survives.
Sorry if this upsets you guys, but I thought you should know – I was so shocked when I read it, I didn’t bother to look at what site it was on.
My heart aches so much…
Hi Ash Fan!Thanks for letting us know, and also for your support! Why can’t they just leave her alone to rest in peace??? I am so angry, I don’t even have words to say what I feel towards those imature people!! They deserve everything that comes their way!
You are so right… It was NOT ASHLEY’S fault! And once again you are correct… the people who causes the accident and death of another, always survives!
Thank you for letting us know!
Please keep in touch and take care..
Ashley, we miss and love you!!!
Hey S. Miss Her. I’m doing okay, under the circumstances. Definitely not looking 4ward to the end of the month … At least we can see more of our Ash, but it certainly doesn’t take the pain away …
I wanted to ask you, is it possible if we can keep in touch. In my opinion we seem to get along, and support each other? If it’s ok with you. Natalie Le Clue is doing well …
Ashley, we miss her so, so so so much. I cannot deal with this tragedy.
Ash Fan, thanks for the info. That idiotic thing and the others that were in the car will definitely get PUNISHED – I firmly believe that. Words fail me, no conscience!!!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, my thoughts and prayers are with you today, everyday.
Hope you are well. I’m doing okay. Missing Ashley very much this week.
Can I ask you, is it okay if we stay in touch via email as well? If it’s okay with you.
THanks so much for all your support on the site. We MUST keep this site going on in Ashley’s Rememberance.
How stunning did she look last nite …
I find it still, nearly a month later, very very difficult to accept.
We miss u, Ash!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids. I’m thinking of you today, and everyday.
I’m doing well, thank you. Still missing Ashley!
Aaah! Last night…she was trully amazing!
I wonder how her family is doing…must be very hard for them!
Thank you for YOUR support!
Yes, that would be gr8 to stay in touch via email! Thank you!
I agree with you, we certainly MUST keep this site going, for Ashley’s family and for her rememberance!
It feels so unreal…watching her on Isidingo, knowing she is not here anymore…Gosh! I hate the fact that she passed on so soon…too soon!
Ashley, thank you for making a remarkable difference in our lives! You taught me how to live life to the fullest, and I promise you, I will try my very best!
I still pray for you, Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deon & Kids…For this must be the hardest time of your lives! I still pray that God give you strength for every day you are facing…God bless you!
Hey Paul, S.miss her,and Ash fan! There’s a other website of Ashley as well. Don’t know if you’ve already seen it, but it’s: http://www.respectance.com
Ashley…We love you!
Take care and God bless…
Heartbreaking to think of her colleagues, actors, having to “re-enact” grief about Ashley’s death when Isidingo ‘creates’ the death of Lee Haines.
Query: how come the people involved in the accident were taken to Milpark and Asley Callie wasn’t? Who told them she had no Medical Aid? Could it have been Ashley? And if it was, this means she was lucid enough to speak. So why did she die at the Joburg Gen? What happened? We’d like answers.
hey tanya, thanks so much 4 letting us know about the other website. will check it out! how was your day? paul, s.miss her, tanya – you all doing okay? im glad you guys are around… what a great person weve lost!
Hey Ash Fan!
It’s my pleasure!
Yes, what a great person we lost!
She was a trully, remarkable woman!
Day was good…just had a tear in my eye when I saw her on tv… Can’t believe she’s gone!!!
How you keeping up?
Thanks for your support…
God, please give the Callie family strength, and hold them close to your heart, so they may know You are always there!
Ashley, We all miss you so dearly!
Hi Ash Fan. I’m doing okay, how are you keeping? I’m very down today. Can you believe it will be a month Tomorrow that our Ashley was taken from us. I still cannot believe that she is gone. It feels so incredibly unreal!
Watching “Isidingo” has been incredibly difficult, but we owe it to her to carry on watching. And her acting has been SUPERB this whole week, especially Monday.
Ashley, I am missing you so much, and I hope you can forgive me for not being able to let you go …
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, my thoughts and prayers are still with you during this extremely heartbreaking, and difficult time.
hey paul……yup we can keep in touch.
we seem to get along a,d yes, we do support each other well!
do you want my e-mail.
i am sorry…i am not on face book.
let me know….soon
did you see ashley last night….oh my golly!
you cant get any one better than her!
iwhat i want to remember of her is the way she says/or said ‘daddy’
nobody will ever take her place.
rest in peace ash.
i wish you could read this…..we all miss you.
its seems so unreal to understand you hav gone.
to most of us you were a role model…..and will always be.
we (ur fans) should hav created this website long ago.
i cant tell you how much you meant to me…watching you on isidingo,i learnt to carry my self(as a women)
miss you sill and will always!
God’s strength is perfect
when our strength is gone!
He will carry you, when you can’t carry on!
I pray for you: Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deyon & kids! May God bless you in this tragic time! Trust God for what you need…
Hey S miss her. Thank u, it would be gr8 to stay in touch. It means a lot – it’s great to see that there are good people and big Ashley fans like urself, me, Tanya, and Ash Fan.
Please send me ur mail address.
I did watch last night, and, as always she was amazing! This whole week she has been SUPERB, especially on Monday …
I’m very depressed 2day … I miss her so, so much. And I cannot believe that tomorrow will be 1 month. I’ll be thinking of Lauren, Deyon, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, the whole day tomorrow. May God give them strength during this difficult time.
Ashley, I miss u more and more as the days go by. I hope u can forgive me, as I cannot let u go …
Ur biggest, heartbroken fan!!
Hey paul, s.miss her, tanya. Im doing okay – mainly because it only feels as if we are living in a bad dream. I mean, there she is her brilliant self on Isidingo and yet… she is no longer… it is just so difficult to accept it hey. As I said before, I will only be able to deal with it properly when she is no longer on the screens. Its just so unreal still.
Paul, my fellow ash fan, hang in there, I know its hard. We are all here for you hey. From what Ive seen and read about Ashley she was a person who lived life to the full. My opninion… the best way to honour her memory as her fans, is to live our lives to the fullest and to make sure that her memory lives on!
hey tanya ……..i know how you feel.
sometimes i dont even feel like logging into this website…coz it brings back so many memories
Hey s.miss her.
Thanx 4 your support!
Yes, it does.
We just have to keep her family in our prayers every day…they need our support.
Thanks for your comment at no.58.
You took the words out of my mouth.
Hope you are doing well.
Ashley…they say peolpe aren’t perfect,
but you ARE perfect!! We miss you!
I just checked out that website that tanya was talking about. It is a really nice website but I just noticed that Ash’s Birth date, year and month is wrong.
I am really missing Ash today. I can’t Believe it is a month tomorrow.
Last night after watching Isidingo and went to my room and just cried my little eyes out. I really miss her and wish she was here with us. But in a matter of fact, she is not here in person but she is here in our hearts and spirits and she is watching over us from up above.
I will be thinking of her family and the Isidingo cast and the rest of her fans tomorrow.
We must really keep this site going.
I know it is hard but lets keep strong all ash’s fans for her because that is what she would have wanted.
Thanks Paul, tanya , ash fan and s.miss her for keeping this website going and for all your comments.
Miss you lots Ash.
Love you always
Hey Ash Fan,
Thanks so much for your kind words. I am feeling a bit better now, but tomorrow will definitely not be okay. I still can’t believe that it will be 1 month tomorrow. Thank u for ur support, and it’s nice to have such wonderful people around during this time. And I agree, we must live life to the fullest.
Kerry, thanks for your message. Guys, we must keep this site on in her rememberance.
S. miss her – how ya doing? U haven’t replied to my message. Please don’t forget to send me ur mail address. If that’s okay with u?
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are with u 2day, always.
I too am an Ash Fan and would love to go onto the other site. Do I have to register first?
Kerry, thank you!
This website must go on!!!
I always complained about how long the months are, wishing time would just fly…but Now, I wish this month would not end….Isidingo will turn into “Isisadgo”!
Please, we can’t stop praying for her family….
God answers knee-mails. Let us keep on praying for her family!
Ashley, every time I listen to the song “Angel”
I think of you! I wish you could see how many people look up to you! We love you always!
Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John & Deyon, I’m thinking of you always! Everyone is praying for you!
God bless you all..
Please God, give them strength!
No, you just have to go to the site: http://www.respectance.com
and type Ashley’s name into the open space.
To all my fellow Ash fans – paul, tanya, s.miss her, kerry, lolly. Im thinking of you all and appreciate your comments, and it is a great comfort to know you guys are here! As I said earlier, the best way to honour Ash is to live life to the full! From what I hear, that was her motto. So come on guys, lets LIVE and always think of Ash, remember her – lets be an example of a “life fully lived” (Top Billing tribute).
Tomorrow will be a month since we have lost Ash, if you haven’t made that decision yet, start tomorrow and CARPE DIEM, by the grace of God!
Thinking of you all… its great to see how our “family” is growing, just shows how much Ash IS loved! Good night guys…
My Dearest Ashley,
Today is 1 month that you were taken away from us so tragically. Yet, the pain and heartache I’m feeling feels like yesterday. I stll have not come to terms with your passing. It’s still too incredibly difficult for me to accept. I miss you more and more as the days go on.
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids: I wish you strength and guidance during this extremely difficult time. I can’t even begin to think what you all must be going through … This is too, too tragic.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers the whole day today. And everday, there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of you all.
Ashley, Rest in Peace, our South African ANGEL …
Your Heartbroken Fan,
Wow, one month today, unbelievable……….Carpe Diem!!!!!!!!
Ashley, You made a difference in all our hearts
and you showed us how to live life to the fullest!
We may not know God’s reason, but we are greateful that He lend you to us, even for a short time.
You will forever live in our hearts, blooming like a rose every season! God bless you, Ashley and rest in Peace.
Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John and Deyon….God will never leave your sides. Trust God for what you need.
May God give you strength every day and hold you close in His arms and keep you save! God bless your family!
Ash Fan, thanx so much for your support as well!
We most certainly must keep Ashley’s name alive,
by living ours to the fullest, just like Ashley did! And by keeping this site going, in her rememberance!
We lost a diamond that can never be replaced!
We miss and love you, Ashley!!
To ashley – you have been an inspiration to me. we will miss you… forever!
Paul, tanya, s.miss her – how are you keeping?
I’m not doing okay … Very upset, missing Ash terribly, and just feeling empty …………………
How r u doing, ash fan?
Do u have email, or are you on Facebook? If so, could we keep in touch? It seems we get along and we support each other well. If it’s okay with u? I don’t want to be too pushy.
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – may God give you strength during this tragedy. I have been thinking of you all day today. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Ashley, we miss you SO MUCH!!!
Ash,the rain softly falls like my tears,remembering u on this day,but i know u are watching over your family,friends,fans.Miss & luv u always. Gone but never forgotten.My thoughts are with Graham,Claire,Lauren & loved ones. Ash your star shines brightly. RIP
hey paul….my e-mail is email@example.com
tanya ……you please e-mail too.
sorry i took so long to get back to you….e-mail connecton was not working
Hi Paul, how are you doing today? I’m watching the Isidingo rerun… she is looking great hey. My e-mail is firstname.lastname@example.org – would be nice if we can stay in touch.
Hi S. Miss Her,
Thanks for ur email address. Will email you sometime in the week.
Hey Ash Fan. I’m doing a little better today, thanks, u? I watched the 1st episode now at 10am, she was soooooo brilliant … I had to switch off afterwards. I have been taping “Isidingo” since the 18th Feb 2008, and will treasure these last few weeks of her been in them, always. How are we going to cope without her – and without her in the show?
Thanks for giving me ur address. It would be great to keep in touch. It’s great to know there are gr8 people like yourself, Natalie, S.Miss Her, and Tanya around. We need to support each other during this time.
Ashley, I miss you so much!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are still with you all.
Hey S.miss her!
Thank you, will mail you.
Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John and Deyon, We all are praying for you, that God will give you strength and comfort in this very difficult time! God loves you!
Ashley, we miss you so much and we wish you were still with us!
Don’t know how to let you go..
hi paul, im quite down since yesterday… i also have a tape of all her performances, have watched it a couple of times since yesterday. it still feels so unreal that she is gone!
hey tanya, how are u coping?
Hey fellow ash fans,
How are you all doing this morning????
well, me not to good. Missing Ash very much. More and more as the days go by.Can’t stop thinking about her.
I don’t know if any of you saw the article in the Saturday star on saturday???? Well, i saw it and I was outraged.
They are now blaming Ash for Drunk driving. I don’t believe that for a minute.
This is really bad because it is adding additional pressure on her family and friends and us her fans.
I hope you guys are feeling abit better.
Miss you loads Ash.
Mr and Miss Callie, Laurn, John, Deon and kids, keep strong and just remember we are all thinking about you.
Lots of love
hey paul…did u get my e-mail address?
hey kerry grey….
thanx for letting me know about the lastest news about ashley coz i am from east-lnodon.
they hav what-so-ever…..no shame.
how can they say that!u know what so sad…is that evryone elase that was involved in the accident are walking free……….while ashley is getting all the blame!i mean come on……….shes gone and so many fans and her family are still getting over her death!
thanx once again
Hey s.miss her,
Thanks for replying.
I agree with you, they have no shame.
I have just posted another comment on all will be revealed on Isidingo in April and asked you to reply and add a comment but don’t worry you have done it here.
How are you coping???
Thanks once again for replying.
Hey S. Miss Her,
Yes, I did get ur email address. I sent you an email yesterday? Please check, and reply soonest.
I am so so upset over that article on Saturday. May those things be punished!!!!!
Ash, I miss you so so so much!!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, there is not a day that goes by that I don’t think and pray for you all.
Ashley, we miss you so much!
Life will never be the same without you!
We don’t understand why you were taken so soon,
But we will never forget you, we will always love you, respect you and fight for what we believe in!
Thank you for the footsteps you left behind, so we can follow in them.
Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deyon & Kids; we know life is not easy for you, and you miss Ashley so much.
We will always love Ashley and honour Ashley’s name!
We wish we could have known her personally; that would have trully been a blessing!! Thank you for sharing Ashley with us! May God bless you Always!!
Take care and God bless*
Hey Ash Fan!
Thanx for your positive comments on Ashley’s site, and for honouring Ashley’s name.
How are you today?
I feel like the weather!
Missing Ashley everyday!
Hey S. Miss Her & Ash Fan,
How are you guys doing? Did you guys get my email that I sent on Sunday? Please check and reply soonest, as I haven’t heard back from u guys, and was getting worried …….
As the days go by, the pain gets worse. People say that time heals. But it’s having the opposite affect on me.
I miss you more and more as the days go by … I’m not looking forward to seeing your Final Bow on “Isidingo”.
I’m blessed to have an Autographed Photo of you and I’ll never forget you. I miss you terribly, my Dear Ashley! The BEST ACTRESS South Africa will EVER have!
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids. I’m still thinking and praying for you, today, and everyday.
sorry…paul. no i did not get the e-mail.
i feel so down at times!
why did it hav to happen….cant it just be a dream!ashley ….s.a greatest actress…..we all miss you.
hey kerry grey
but if we all pray…..those shamefull devils will be punished.
i am ok….kerry.its hard. my role model gone!i always thought i would meet her…..something i would treasure forever…..well that day is gone!
hey ashley………why YOU i keep asking myself!
isidingo will never be the same….never.infact i dont know if i will watch isidingo….ever.
i miss you…..days are moving fast…and yet i am not getting over this.its still a shock.
please forgive me…….rest in peace
Its really really hard to realise that Ashley is not with us anymore…I keep thinking its a dream and that Ill wake up and everything will be back to normal.
I dont normally watch a lot of tv but Ive been rushing home to catch Ashleys final episodes. When I see her there on screen, its as if she’s still here with us and thats really comforting. What talent! It really would be amazing to see her first performance on Isidingo, and to see how she had grown and developed over the years.
My thoughts and positive energy to all her family and loved ones. It is sooooo difficult right now…
I’ve re-sent the mail, I hope you receive it now. Ash Fan, please let me know if you received mine.
I feel exactly like you, my friend. I also wish it would be a dream …. And that we just need to wake up and Ashley will be with us …. I cannot, and it seems, will not, come to terms with this shock and tragedy. I just can’t understand ……………. WHY was Ashley taken?? And the fact that the end of the month is coming closer … We gonna need another lifetime to get over this.
Ashley, I hope you can forgive me, cause I cannot let you go. May you REST IN PEACE.
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, my thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Yep I agree with you, if we pray those shameful devils will be punished.
I am also doing ok. Really missing Ash alot as the days go on.
She is also my role model and always will be and i also thought i would meet her one day but now my chance has gone. But she will live on in my memory.
Take care and Keep well.
no sorry i still did not get the e-mail.
yup…..time is getting closer….i dont know what to do next!by the way yesterday she was just amazing!
i just kept looking at her.
i miss her still.
rest in peace ashley!
the question is when will they get punished!
i hope soon…i cant take it any longer.
i miss her still…..yesterday i lay in bed thinking about her.
i remember the day i heard the news!i was still having a slice of watermelon…….i just stoped eating!
whole life spoilt!
I agree…! They should pay for what they had done to Ashley and Ashley’s family!! What they don’t know is, “You reap what you sow, and what you put into the lives of others,WILL come back into your own!!”
Ashley, we miss you everyday! We can’t accept that you are gone..it’s so hard! Thank you for making a BIG difference in all our lives! Trying to forget someone we love, is like trying to forget someone we never knew! We will NEVER forget you!
Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deyon & Kids,
You all are still in our prayers everyday! May God give you strength each day! “In the eye of a storm, God has put a rainbow in the clouds”. Keep well.
I know it has been said that Ashley’s last appearance will be towards the end of this month, but the exact day has not been published and everyone is agonising over when that will be. According to my assumption – I have no official proof – it will probably be Friday, 28 March and this is how I came upon this date.
Last night on Isidingo, Ashley’s hair was dead straight, as if it had been straightened with a hair iron. Normally her hair has more body and a slight wave to it. In a lot of the photo’s of her shown soon after her death – on the 3 Talk tribute, SABC3 tribute, in various magazines,etc – her hair was just as straight. I read in a magazine that these publicity photo’s were taken of her and the cast just 11 days before the accident on 8 Feb. So, if the photo’s were taken on the day they shot yesterday’s episode and that was 11 days before the accident, 11 days from yesterday takes you to Friday, 28 March as her last appearace.
I also remember reading an interview with Robert Whitehead (Barker) and he said that the week before her accident, their filming had been extremely difficult – a death and funeral, that was particularly hard on Lee and Barker, and therefore draining on them as actors. On the day of the accident, Ashley and Robert had gone for cappucino’s to wind down after the difficult scenes, before she left to get ready for the Pirelli party. We have also been told in a couple of reports about the future storyline that Lee’s mother does in fact die. The latest YOU, gives a brief explanation of the episode on Wed, 26 March – Lee receives shocking news. Probably her mother’s death, with funeral probably following by Friday, 28th and in my estimation, Ashley’s last episode.
So, unless the magazine reports I read were incorrect and / or the Isidingo producers hold back on viewing some of her episodes to further delay her last appearance, watch closely on the 28th and we will see if I’m right. NOT, that this is something I want to be right about, but it might help those fans having difficulty coming to terms with this to have some clarity on when we can say “goodbye” for the last time.
Hey S Miss Her,
I wouldn’t know how brilliant she was last night, as we had LOADSHEDDING!!! This country makes me sick!!!
Please send me your mail address again, maybe I’ve typed it wrong.
I feel soooo upset, as nothing but NOTHING is been done, and it’s really not on.
Our dearest Ashley, I miss you SO MUCH!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are with you today, everyday.
I agree with you, this country makes me sick as well.
I also had LOAD SHEDDING last night and only saw about 2 minutes of the end when lee was talking to frank.Will have to see the ominbus on Sunday. Hope we don’t have Load Shedding then because I will really be mad.
I am really dreading her last episode. I am missing her so much.
You are so lucky to have an autographed phonto of her, I wish i had that.
Mr & Mrs Callie, Laurn, John, Deon, Kids, friends and Isidingo cast, my thoughts and prayers are with you today and always. Keep well.
Yes, this country makes me SICK, and don’t even talk about the loadshedding! Now that I hear she was on last nite and I missed it, I wanna go MAD!!!
I really treasure the Autographed Photo, and hold it close to my heart. I’ve since had it framed, and it’s hanging up on my wall … Sob!!! The fact that we’ll never see her again is killing me.
WHY did this have to happen? HOW are we going to get over this?
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are still with you at this time.
Ashley’s heartbroken fan, always,
A Poem I came across somewhere…..
You truly were an angel
sent from God in heaven above.
Your shocking death just broke the hearts of everyone you loved.
When I found out that you had died
I thought that they were wrong.
You were so alive – and then
just like that, you were gone.
A flame blown out in seconds,
Confirming our worst fears -
A light that shines no more on earth
for which we shed many tears.
But still you are my beacon
And I need you right now.
You hear all the prayers I say
Because they are answered somehow.
I wish that you could be here,
But in a way you are.
Your symbol of a rose goes everywhere with me,
so I know you can’t be far.
It still is quite a shock to me
that you had to die;
But no one will forget you
I love you, and goodbye.
Laughter is God’s sunshine….
Ashley proved that to us!
She always had a BEAUTIFUL SMILE on her face!
Thank you, Ashley, for bringing the sun into our lives!!
That is beautiful words tanya, that is the type of thoughts we must pour out about ash! because she seemed to have had a positive approach to life! CARPE DIEM, you are forever part of our memory ashley!
hey paul, did get your email, i will reply soon. had quite a hectic week so far. only now have a chance to catch up the comments on the site. you seem to be a bit down, just hang in there my friend, we all will get through this!
hey paul the e-mail is dreams.kiraltd.rediffmail.com
hey tanya,kerry and paul….how are you doing.
me not so well…….i keep watching isidingo with a broken heart.
yup….this country maks me sick!
you can just see that the its the devils world!
i will pray harder 2day…….so that those idiots will get caught!
sorry ash fan….how are you doing?
me ….well……never mind.
its not worth talking about it….my blood presure rises. those devils……..i wish i could catch them!
keep strong….thanx for all ur support!
Thanks, I’m glad you received my mail. Please reply soon. It would be great to hear from you.
Yes, I am down, very down, actually. I still think, what is her Family going through? Tonight’s episode was heartbreaking for me. Not only did she look exquisitely stunning, but she was in for quite some time, which was very difficult to digest ……….
I know we will all get over this, together, as support and as Fans of Ashley’s, but as the days go by, it’s not getting any better. How do you feel?
Ashley, I still love and miss you dearly. You were taken from us far too soon, but I cannot seem to accept that you are gone …………………. I hope you are at Peace …
Your Fan, always!!
That’s the e-mail I’ve got? I’ll re-send it now, let me know if you get it.
I agree more and more, that this country makes me SICK! They WILL get caught, Please GOD.
Yes, “Isidingo” was extremely difficult for me today; Not only did Ashley look as STUNNING as ever, but she acted brilliantly, AND she was on for quite some time. Which makes it even more difficult to try and accept the fact that she is no longer … How are we gonna get over this, hey?
Ashley, my heart is still broken, but with all the great memories, photographs of you, I’m sure it will be okay.
Lauren, Mr & Mrs Callie, John, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are with you today, everday. I really hope you are all okay. This must be extremely difficult for all of you.
Your heartbroken, and dedicated fan, always!
Hey S.Miss Her,
I am not ok today, really missing Ash alot. I haven’t seen her on Isiding this week except for 2 minutes at the end on Tuesday because of Load Shedding.
I am getting so angry with this load shedding, It always happens when it is time for Isidingo.
I guess I will have to watch on Sunday.
I couldn’t agree with you more, this is a devils world.
I am also praying for those Idiots to get caught more and more each day.
Lauren, John, Mr and Mrs Callie, Deon and kids, I hope you guys are doing ok and my thoughts and prayers are with you guys today and always.
Miss you lots Ash, really wish you were here with us.
Your other Dedicated Fan
Hey S.Miss her!
How you doing? I’m just upset about what those pathetic people are saying about Ashley…!
But, we have to stay positive, for Ashley and Ashley’s family. Let’s keep this site going with positive thoughts in Ashley’s name and remeberance!
Thank you for your positive comments. And let us all keep on praying for Ashley’s family.
hey all…i just want to say a few things this morning.
i cant remember where i read this but i remember the other driver saying……..ashley paid a high price!
what a cheek he has!all he is bothered about is his own life…forget about ashley!
i hope god will take action!
yes paul…watching her yesterday was……i do not know, i just tried to keep strong and put a smile on my face.
i miss her…….dearly.
rest in peace……and help the truth come out ashley.
your fan always and forever
hey tanya……i am ok.
i am feeling up set1
pray….thats all…..i hope it will work.
i think justice has to be done soon.
we cant go on like this!
It was very upsetting last nite. .. Why did this have to happen … I don’t think we are ever going to get over this. I miss her so much.
Did you receive my email as yet? Please let me know … Soon.
Ashley, I miss you always!!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are with you, today, everday.
Ashley may you REST IN PEACE.
Your heartbroken fan, always!
To all those who want to remember Ashley, i have created a blog where you may post your comment and tributes to her. The adress is http://inmemoryofashleycallie.blogspot.com
Please use it to pay your respects and to keep Ashleys memory alive
Thank you for creating such a lovily blog spot for us to remember Ashley on and Post our Tributes on.
Hope you are doing ok under the circumstance. Please would you send my regards to The whole of the callie family.
Ashley, Rest in peace and miss you loads and you will never be forgotten.
Your Dedicated Fan
Yes, thank you for setting up your blog.
We will keep her memory alive!
Ash, we miss you something terrible!
Hi Kerry, Ash Fan & S Miss Her;
How are you all doing? I’m doing okay … Under the circumstances. Friday nite’s “Isidingo” was brilliant! Ashley look stunning and acted brilliantly. What a pity next week is upon us, boy I’m dreading it.
Ashley, I hope you are at peace now, but just know that I’m missing you SO SO MUCH. I’ll never forget you and will hold your memory close to my heart.
To Lauren, Mr & Mrs Callie, John, Deyon & Kids. I hope you are all doing okay. There is not a DAy that goes by that I don’t think of you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you today, everday.
I miss you Ashley!!!
hey paul………thanx for the message.
yup…i am too dreading the day …….and time is moving!
i cant get over it……..hay?
yesterday i was in bed thinking for how the news reader broke the news to me……….not a good thought.
i ended up crying.
its hard……….very hard.
well i hope things will get better when she is off screen……..altough i will always rememberher.
hey ashley………..we all miss you.
rest in peace……..and guide us in the right direction.
may you forgive us all……..its just that we miss you so so so much.
hey all……….i read this from the chicken soup for the christian soul-i thought it may help you all.
well here it goes-
God saw you were getting tired
and a cure was not meant to be.
So He put His arms around you
and wispered, come with Me”.
With tearful eyes we watched you
as we saw you pass away.
although we loved you deeply,
we could not make you stay.
Your golden heart stopped breathig,
hard -working hands at rest.
god broke our hearts to prove to us
He only knows whats BEST!
Yes, I’m dreading next week … But, I also think that once she’s no longer on TV, (sob!!!), it will get a little better for us. But we will never, EVER, forget our beautiful Ashley. The impact that she had on our lives, we’ll treasure, always …………….
I cried a lot last week on “Isidingo”. Seeing how brilliantly she acted and how BEAUTIFUL she looked … Gosh, it was overwhelming!
We’ll never get over her death. Something I guess we have to accept ………………………………..
Did you eventually get my email??
To Lauren, Mr & Mrs Callie, John, Deyon & Kids, I’m praying and thinking of you all today, … everyday.
Hey S.miss her!
Thank you for the beautiful poem “Golden heart”.
It is really beautiful and SO TRUE!!
Ashley…We are missing you so much! Gosh, how we wish you could have still be here with us! Although we do not understand, God knew best! We love you always and will forever remember you!
Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deyon & Kids…We pray that you all are doing okay. We know this is a hard time for you, but we also know that God will see you through! You are in our prayers every single day!! God bless you Always!!!
How are you doing?
I’m still missing Ashley…
I’m not looking forward to this week…it’s going to be like we are losing Ashley all over again!
Let us just keep on praying for her family, and also keep this site going with positive thoughts, for Ashley…for her rememberace.
God bless Always*
Found this wonderful verse:
Those we hold most dear never truly leave us … they live on in the kindnesses they showed, the comfort they shared and the love they brought into our lives.
Just remember that she is only a thought away….
Sorry for the late reply but I have only got to a computer now.
I am doing ok under the circumstances. Really missing Ash this weekend. I can’t stop thinking about her family and how they must be feeling.
I am also dreading next week. I see in the paper that on Wednesday (26th) Lee receives bad news. I wonder what they is gonna be.
I think it will be better when she is not on our screens anymore.
We will never forget you Ash, You have touched our lives in so many ways and you have taught us to live life to the fullest.And that is exactly what i am going to do.
To Mr and Mrs Callie, John, Lauren, Deon and Kids, I am thinking of you guys today and you are always in my prayers. Hope you are all doing ok.
Miss you always Ash.
Lots of love
To ashley… you were a brilliant actress! i think you must have been one of those people who made a success of everything you touched! you are in my thoughts, rest in peace! CARPE DIEM!!!
No problem at all. I’m also not doing 100 % … Yet.
I must agree, I think once she’s off our screens, (sob!), it will really sink in. I think the bad news she receives is that her mom dies. How brilliant was she the WHOLE of last week. She looked absolutely stunning … Especially when she had her hair in a ponytail.
We will never forget our Beautiful Ashley Callie. She not only inspired us, as fans, she was our best actress that this country has ever had; and we must certainly live each and every day, to the FULLEST! As Ash would’ve done … CARPE DIEM!
I miss you more and more each day, Ashley. But I’m trying to be strong … It’s not easy. I really hope you are at peace now.
There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think of – Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids. I hope you are all doing okay … Must be very difficult. My thoughts and prayers are with you today, everday.
Ashley … CARPE DIEM!!!
Yep, She was brillant the whole of last week. Especially on friday at the board meeting.
We will have to wait and see what this week holds.
I am really missing her stacks. Can’t stop thinking about her and her family.
But i guess she is at peace now, watching over us all.
Miss you loads Ash.
To the family, friends, isidingo cast and fans, keep strong and in time we will get through this.
I will never forget you Beautiful Ashley.
Lots of love
Your Dedicated Fan
Looking at episode after episode and seeing Ash is traumatic. I’m an artist and hence a visualiser (even did a painting of Ash that she hung in the restaurant in Melville) and looking at her face, and I know that face so well, and her majestic way she carries her head on those upright shoulders…she was so elegant. Can’t look at her face…
hey all……….sorry i got to the computer only now.
yup……time is moving…..fast.
its really sad………very sad to hear that such good heart people have to go from this world.
listen all…..i want to tell you something.
everyone try and read this.
i would like to get comments.
here it goes………….well about 2 weeks ago…..a friend of my mums phoned and said that her sister- in-law…met up in a accident(head on)
well……this lady went to the hospital……did tests and so on.
however she was not getting better……lying there in the hospital bed almost dead.
later the doctor said that she is brain dead….and that she wont be able to do nthing except breath.
it was that what the doctor said so the family took the doctors word.
they where going to move her to a home……….when her husband went to visit her at the hospital and saw that she was moving and talking…….shocking!
it is to me a MIRICLE.
hey……i would like to hav some comments on this.
why could not this happen to ash?
hey all……….we all need to support everyone……..as this is a hard time for all!
i know its not going to be easy letting her go.
we are all sorry ash……..its just that their is so much love for u down here.
God saw you were getting tired
and a cure was not meant to be.
So He put His arms around you
and wispered, come with Me”.
hey paul, kerry and ash fan……..keep strong.
Cool poem… who knows what Gods will is?
Your mums friend story: doctors still don’t know what goes on in the human brain…we’ve been on the moon…drove a beach buggy all over Mars…we have cell phones (even the gardener)…they have cloned animals…made computers that beat humans with chess…what ever…but know nothing about how the human brain functions!!! Is there a doctor in the house?
When i must leave u for a little while, please do not grieve & shed wild tears & hug your sorrow to u through the years, but start out bravely with a gallant smile; & for my sake & in my name live on & do all things the same, feed not your loneliness on empty days, but fill each waking hour in useful ways, reach out your hand in comfort & in cheer & i turn will comfort u & hold u near, & never be afraid to die, for i am waiting for u in the sky. Graham, Claire, Lauren & loved ones, thinking of u always & hoping things are a little better as the days pass. Take care & missing Ash dearly.
Good Morning everyone.
Lovely Poem S.Miss her. Very very true.
Last nite after watching Isidingo and went to my room and read the article in the top billing magazine about Ash and she looked stunning and the article was just so true and had alot of advise for life. I noticed that the article was done in January/February 2007 and who would have ever thought that a year later Ash would not be with us anymore. To me that is really really sad and heart breaking.
I am really missing her more and more each day and letting her go is really going to be hard for me and probably for you guys too.
Hey S.Miss her, Paul and Ash fan, How are you guys doing today????
Everyone keep strong and I am thinking of all of you always.
Mr and Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deon, Kids, Isidingo cast, friends and all the people that work at her resturant and Fans, Keep strong and I hope you are all doing a little bit better as the days go on and I am thinking of you guys and you are always in my prayers.
Missing you stacks Ash and I will never forget you ever because you are in my heart and my memory.
Lots of love always
Your dedicated fan
hey all………..time is getting closer.
we all hav to b strong for the sake of ashley.
i know its going to be hard…………..very.
as for me………..i am going to sit in front of the tv and cry.
hey ash………..we all miss you.
hey all………what i wanted to say is that…………why ash?
i ask this because……you know many people get involved in a car accident like ashley’s…….sometimes the accident could be worse……right? but these people dont die just like that.
ashley……wish you could of been a bit stronger………i always thought you would come out of the hospital better.i prayed hard……day in and day out.
all i can say we all hav lost someone very dear to us and our screens.
Hi guys, it’s that time of day again…Isidingo…Ash on TV. How long will it still last…with Ash in it? How many episodes did they make ahead? I’m glad they are taking Ash’s role out of the story. But you know what…the show will not be the same…not so good…love all the actors but who can take Ash’s place…who will be able to take up the banner?
I have the answer to your question.
Go out and buy the new TV Plus magazine, it is all in there. I have subscribed to TV Plus so I got mine delivered to me today.
Ash’s last episode is on the 4th of April. So sad.
But from the 31st of March it all starts.
To me it looks like she gets kidnapped and murdered somewhere in Mpumalanga.
It is going to be really sad and heart breaking and for us to do it all over again.
But least they have told us when it is going to happen, so we can prepare ourselves not that it is gonna help much.
I am really missing her loads.
Rest in peace Ash and I really wish you were here.
To the family, Friends and Fans, keep strong and you are all in my prayers.
Hi Kerry, thanks for the info…I wish we can put some pics on our blog. I have some nice pics of Ash and of her painting I did for her sitting in La Vista Social Club on the sofa. Man! she looks great on TV tonight. I think we must start an Ashley Callie Social Club. What do you say…a real occult type of movement…?
Hi Paul, You can post your pics of Ashley on my blog
http://wwwinmemoryofashleycallie.blogspot.com or e-mail me at email@example.com and i will post them for you. Ashfan, S.miss , Kathleen and Kerry you are welcome to e-mail me at the above e-mail adress. Keep Strong all of you
Cool…I’ll email you Francine…saw your blog…very pink!!!
hey all….thanx for tha latest info.
i know..its better to know….so we can prepare ourselves.its going to be hard.
hey paul a……how are u?
hey…did you get to c ash?well………i wish i could hav seen her. but as i said before….we take good people for granted.if i did look up to her i should of made a effort to c her………but coz i am in east london i did not!
now she is gone………forever.
it shows us…..to do what we want to do for life is short!
we all going to miss her.
hey all………..i need some support.
i am going from bad to worse………….i MISS HER.
Hey “s.miss her” there in East London, you must know how we miss her…not just a person on tv, we saw her in real life. Check Fancine’s blog page on http://www.inmemoryofashleycallie.blogspot.com…cool blog.
Francine…I emailed you the pics. Put them on your blog.
Love all of you out there…
You know, a bad thing is that I drive down Tana Ave about 3 times a week from my house in Northcliff to Greenside and pass the corner where Ash had her crash. It’s a very bad corner…prone to acidents.
How are you doing? I’m keeping strong. How brilliant was Ashley last night? I also read the TV Plus yesterday … Gosh … it’s gonna be tough!
S. Miss Her; did you receive my email, friend? Hang in there, we are all here for you. It’s certainly not easy.
Ashley, I am missing you a lot! Hope you are at peace now.
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Ashley’s heartbroken fan,
Thank you for making such a nice website for Ashley. You were very priveliged to have had her as a friend. She was truly a stunningly genuine person. I, unfortunately, never got to meet her, but I have an autographed photo of Ashley that I got from the Fan Club of “Isidingo” about 3 years ago, which I’ll always treasure!
Please could you give Ashley’s Family my sincerest condolences and that there is not a day that goes by that I do not pray and think of them.
Would it be okay if I also email you at the email address you have given? Please let me know.
Ashley’s very heartbroken and dedicated fan, always …
Hey Francine! Thank you for a wonderful blog!
Ashley…we are missing you so much!
We still don’t understand why, why you, why now…
Please forgive us for not letting you go!
Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deon & Kids…you are in our prayers every day! May God give you the strength you need and always know God is always there!
I am also doing ok and trying to keep strong but it is really hard.
Ash was awesome yesterday on Isidingo, I loved the part with her and Guy. She acted so professional while not know what he was talking about. I also liked the part with her and Denio with the SISTER thing.
It is going to really hard to say goodbye to her for a second time.
I am really missing her more and more as the days go on and I really wish she was here with us.
One of my dreams was to always meet her and I never got the chance. I always wanted to go to her resturant and I still do but that is going to be hard and I will have to do it one day when i am a bit stronger.
I agree with you Paul, we must really start a Ashley Callie Social Club in rememberance of her.
How are you doing today????
Hope you are well.
To The family, Friends, Fans and all that knew Ash, keep strong and remember she is only a thought away and she is watching over us all.
Miss you loads Ash,
Lots of love always
Thank you so much for your email address, I was going to ask you for it today. I will email you soon.
My email address is firstname.lastname@example.org. so you can also email me. Paul, Ash Fan, S.Miss Her and Kathleen, you guys can also email me if you want.
Thank you so much for your posts on the Libby site.I really really wish that they would stop this nonsense and let Ash just rest in peace. What you send is really true and I thank you for that.
How are you holding up????
I am ok. Really missing her a lot.
Could you please give my sincere condolences to the family and Deon and the Kids.
I will email you soon.
Hope you are holding up.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all and Keep strong.
Lots of love
Are there two Paul’s on this site now???
Because I see there is Paul and Paul A.
Or maybe it is just a typing error.
Missing Ash Loads
I’m the Paul that has been speaking to you on this Beautiful Site for the last while. But I see that there is another Paul; known as Paul A. I hope this makes sense.
So Can I still mail you then? As you’ve been quite a nice support for me. And I thank you for that!
Trying to be strong, but it’s not easy.
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Cool you can email me anytime you like and I will alway reply.
You are also been support for me too.
Can’t wait to hear from you.
Hey Francine and Kerry
Thank you so much for your email addresses.
Will email you soon.
Cool, Can’t wait to hear from you.
Thank you so much for reply.
speak to you Soon.
Yep, I’m Paul A, a friend of Ash. Francine, thanks for putting the pics and painting of Ash on your site. Letty, when seeing her pic with Ash, started crying. Shame, had to hold her for a while.
You guys are all great. Wish I could meet you all.
Hey Paul A, Paul, Kerry,ashfan and s.miss
Ir is really great to know that there are so many people out there who cared about Ashley. You guys may e-mail me any time. thinking of you all
Hi to Ashs fab 5, if i may call u that. I would like to thank u all for your support to fans of Ashley that are going through the same. I was a follower of Ash career & a huge fan. She inspired me immensly & will forever do so. But back to u fab 5, everyday i visit this site & the words of encouragement & raw emmotions & feelings give me the strenght to go on & feel a little better. I find it easier to speak than to write but have mannaged to put a few good words together. Thanks once again, Ash couldnt have asked for more. Ash is in my thoughts daily & i have a few photos on my phone. Take care & thanks once again.
To ashley, you are one of the reasons im proud to be a south african. so much talent and even more, what an inspiration! you will be missed… always… forever! CARPE DIEM!!
hi francine, thank you 4 the blog youve set up 4 ashleys memory! what a wonderful friend you are! i think of her often, and still feel sad, how you must be feeling… i cant imagine. hope all the comments from her adoring fans help?
It hasn’t been easy, but yes thank you all for your support and kind wishes, i really appreciate it. You may also e-mail me if you like, email@example.com
I am trying to be strong but there are days when i just look at her in Isidingo and cry. All of you have been fantastic. Keep stong, thinking of you
Thank you francine, will email you soon. ashley touched so many lives without knowing it, and i hope that you find some comfort in that! thinking of you lots!
Hi Fab Ash 5, sounds cool and makes one feel part of the gang…Fran or Franny (as Francine is fondly known…by her friends) and me are having coffee at a place on 4th Avenue, Parkhurst on Sunday. So if anybody would like to join us (hope its ok Fran?) feel free. The Fab Ash 5 movement is hereby established! Sorry ‘s.miss her’ (from East London) we’ll keep you up to date via the blog. We could even lay a reef on the crash site which is only a short trip from there. I’ve wanted to but didn’t want to do it alone. So this may be the right time.
Love you all guys!!!
Feeling great today…
Ashley… the sea was beautiful and calm today… it reminded me of you… rest in peace… CARPE DIEM!!!
Hi Paul A.
You have actually brightened up my day! I’ve been feeling very down, what with missing Ashley so, so much, and 2night’s episode is going to be tough. They say she gets “bad news”. I’m asuming this is going to be the Death of her mom??
Plse keep us posted as to where we should meet. I’d really love to meet you all, if that’s okay? The rest of the Team; S Miss Her, Tanya, Kerry, Ash Fan, have all been very supportive to me, and that is really something … A special mention as well MUST go out to my dear friend, Natalie Le Clue. Wish you could join us! But she’s in PE.
How lucky you were to have been friends with Ashley. I have an Autographed photograph of her which I received from the “Isidingo” fan club about 3 years ago. I always kept it in my Photo Album, but since she passed away, I’ve put it in a frame, and have it hanging on my wall. I also have the Ashley Callie Rose growing in my garden.
Plse keep us posted and thank you SO MUCH for inviting us …
means a lot!
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – I’m thinking of you today, and everyday! There is not a day goes by that I don’t think of you all.
Ashley’s heartbroken, but stronger, fan,
hey paul a
thanx ….i wish i could be there.plz keep me posted.
do you thik it was ash’s last episode this evening?
hey e-mail me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
how are you?me….well…i keep wanting to cry….i really miss her.
sometimes i think she is going to wake up……….but no,i know ………its never going to happen.
i cant let her go.
to the callie family…….weare all thinking of u.
love :all ashley’s greatest fans
hey paul a
do u know when was ashleys birthday was?
someone told me 10th may….true?
No it was not her last episode tonight. I think it will be either on Friday or on Monday.
I see in TV Plus that Frank warns Lee about her Father.
Thanks for your email address, I will email you soon.
hey paul a
urggg…….i wish i was in jo’burg.
cool…..i cant wait to get this club started……..i will do anything this side.let me know!
i guess natalie and i are in the same boat.
i miss her
hey kerry grey….thanx for ur fast reply.
great……but dont u think its funny….here in isidingo lee’s mother dies…..then in real life.ash goes.
kerry grey……keep strong.
we are friends….we will all stick together and will pull through this.
from s miss her
Hey, I’m also not doing too good. It’s been very difficult for me, too, and especially since her last appearance is going to be any day now, I can’t bear it … I also try and hold back my tears, but I can’t. How can we let our Darling Ashley go???
So, did you ever get my email? I really would love to keep in touch with you. You’ve been really supportive to me this last few weeks. PLZ let me know. Maybe I must email you from another mail address?
I’m thinking of John, Lauren, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, today, and everyday. Gosh, this must be so hard for them. I can’t begin to imagine what they must be going through.
It’s a pity that you and Natalie are not in Jhb ….
Keep well & plse respond.
Ashley’s devastated fan!
Hi there to u all, tears flow freely after 2nights episode of Isidingo. Ash was amazing as usual & knowing she will soon be leaving our screens, thats going to be hard & sad. My thoughts are with u all & stay strong as Ash would have wanted u all to be, she also wont mind the tears, she is watching over her family, loved ones, friends & fans & loves u all dearly. Take care
Hi s.miss her, you know what? I sometimes forget my mother’s birthday. I some how think it’s in June. Is there someone out there that can help with Ash’s birth date.
Hi Paul, sure thing, I think we should get together at around 11 Sunday morning, if it’s ok with Fran. Fran still has to let me know if it’s fine for Sunday.
Hi ash.fan, sorry I forgot you are also coast bound. I think we should hire a bus and get together down at the coast and have an Ash weekend and only talk about what influence she has had on our lives.
Hi Fran, get my last email? Let me know and call me.
Yep, it’s bad saying goodbye especially if its to someone so damn special…and if it drags on and on like this…episode after episode…I don’t even know what’s happening with the other characters in Isidingo, only pay attention when Ash comes up. You know, Deyon once told me he never watches the show.
Well guys….The Fab Ash 5…love you all…
Hi everyone i read through this blog every night thought its about time i posted something…my daughter is 4 and a very ill little angel she never misses an episode of “isidino” she was so sad tonight when lee mommy went to live by Jesus…i took her to Ashleys restaurant on saturday for tea it was such a special time…Ashley impacted the lives of so many in countless ways! Take care xxx
Hi Meg, you called your daughter “a very ill little angel”…what’s wrong with her?
Man, I’m very upset right now…went to libby.iblog.co.za…what a mess…our blog must never end up like that…just anger and dung flinging…a lot of hate…Franni told me I must have a look…You can see the mud slingers have no idea who they are talking about…You could pull Ash through a ring…she was neat…intelligent…always allert…responsible…acted like an adault should…and not a heavy drinker…and not a reckless driver…never…they have no idea…they don’t know our Ash…
hey paul………..sorry no i did not get ur e-mail.
rem its email@example.com……there is a dot check!
i 2 would like to keep in contact with u as u 2 hav been very supportive to me…..try again.
yup…… apity natalie and i are not in joburg………MAN.
looks like nat and i are really close……pe and el not far.
I read the posts daily and comforted at how you are comforting each other. I have emailed Natalie and I see s miss is in east london. I am in PE as well. I don’t even want to go to that libby site…it’ll make me too angry and upset. I know Ashley was a decent, intellegent, responsible person. You don’t need to have known her to know that. Those flinging mud as Paul put it, must remember one thing…the wheel turns and one day they will have to stand judgement. It may not seem fair for all us in moarning now, but it will come back to those being dishonest and hurtful. I have learnt that lesson from my own personal tragedy. Time does not heal it only numbs and with standing together we will get through it, they will have to live with their deceptions and lies, growing bigger and it will catch up with them.
I’d like to thank Ash first of all for being an inspiration. I want to be a better woman because of her. And secondly to all of you, for letting me know I am not alone.
hey paul a.
i forgot to tell you …..that u to can e-mail me.
we need to support each other at a time like this.
i feel so down……..i hav no energy to do nothing…what-so-ever.
thanx for all ur support…..it means alot to me.
hey…somebody told me her birthday was 19th may?
hey i dont know…….hav to find out.
hey cath………shows ash had fans all over.
hey cath e-mail me to
hey all…..if i want to i can give bad words…………..those bad articles can be taken and shoved into the toilet.
they dont know ASh………know that she is gone…….they want to blame her.where are those other dame drivers hiding……..are they 2 scared.
shame …..coz i think they caused the accident.
yup…the accident that made us lose our dear ASH……….once again thank you 21 year old driver how ever u are.
Morning S Miss Her.
I’ll double-check how I’ve typed your email address, and I’ll resend it now. Thanks for all your support. I really appreciate it! Isn’t it great that Paul A has suggested that we all meet up? It’s a pity that you & Natalie could not be here.
Last night was very sad, hey? She was so gloriously brilliant! And her last appearance is nearly upon us … SOB!!!! How are we going to get over this?
Ashley, I miss you more and more every day … Rest in Peace.
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – my thoughts and prayers are still with you today.
Morning Paul A.,
How are you doing today? HOpe you are well. I was just on Francine’s beautiful website dedicated to Ashley and I saw the photo’s you took of Ashley. Absolutely beautiful!! How fortunate you were to have had Ashley as a friend …
Have you heard back from Francine about Sunday? Please let us know. And also the name of the place and in which street. It will be great to have an Ashley Callie Social Club. Gosh, I miss her terribly!!
Morning Paul A how are u this morning The doctors are not sure whats wrong with her…she has fluid on her lungs and battles to breathe they suspect its cystic fibrosis Anyway to all of u your posts are beautiful and comforting to read especially during the long nights. Have a wonderful day xxx
Hi all, yes Paul, we are all meeting at Batuke on the corner of 4th avenue and 10th street in Parkhurst at 12 for lunch. Franni’s suggestion, I think it’s great.
The Fab Ash 5/6/7/8/9….will meet and show our love to Ash and lay a reef where our dearest friend had the accident…bless her for what she meant to us…miss you Ash.
Good Morning everyone,
Paul A, I would really like you to email me too. thank you so much for creating the Social club and for sharing those beautiful pics with us.
S.miss her, Thank you for your email address I will email you soon.
Last night espisode was so sad and ironic and Ash’s words were so true and so relevant. She’s missing her mom and now we are all missing her so much.
Paul, Natalie and Fran, I have sent you guys emails this morning, please let me know if you got them.
Hope you guys are all doing better today.
Mr and Miss callie, Lauren, John, Deon, Kids, friends and fans keep strong and together we will all get though this and you are all in my thoughts and prayers always.
Lots of love always
Miss you Ash
Hi Meg, just read your note. Sorry to hear about your daughter, but I’m not really sorry because my faith in the Lord is strong. I know and believe she will be fine soon. She is in my prayers and I believe Jesus our Lord will lay His hands on her and she WILL be healed. Give her my love.
Hi Paul A & all. Im so glad that u have started the Fab Ash 5/6 …for her close friends & her fans, goes to show just what Ash meant to all of us in our own way. The Callie family, Deyon & kids have been waying heavily in my thoughts, especially 2day, please give them my best wishes & i hope they are well & coping in their own way. Thankrp & to all of u missing Ash but she lives on in my heart. Have a beautiful dax
Hi Paul a.
I am sure Natalie and s.miss will agree that we would want to be there too but so far. Can I or we send you a note to add to your wreath from us too.Or maybe we can send a rose with…..s.miss and natalie let me know too. She is in our hearts and we miss her dearly. If we can contribute let me or us know. Have a toast for me at lunch too. Celebrate her!
Hi guys, the Sunday date is on…Franni has to book a table(s) for us…please let us know who’s coming…its for this Sunday 30 March at 12 for lunch…at Batuke cnr 4th avenue & 10th street Parkhurst. Please let us know soonest.
Love all you lovely people…
Hi Catherine, I’ll stand proxy for you and s.miss her and all the others that can’t make it…and we will ad your names…going to miss you guys but we’ll take some pics to document the event and post it on Franni’s site…how is that…you’ll be part of the gang…
Hey Paul a can you give me your e-mail address?
Hi Paul A,
Thank you so much for this it really means a lot but unfortnuity I will not be able to make it this Sunday due to prior arrangements which I can’t cancel.
I will not be there in body but I will be there in spirit and heart and could you please add my name aswell.
Could you please email me too Paul A. firstname.lastname@example.org.
I was thinking could we maybe post photo’s of ourself on Fran’s website and name it the Fab Ash Gang because there is more than 5 of us now. Please Gang, let me know what you think?????? And by doing this we will also see what we all look like.
Missing Ash Always but she is living in all of our hearts and she is in heaven watching over all of us too.
Hope you guys are having a fab day.
Did you get my email that I sent you this morning????
Hope you are doing well.
Yeah Kerry already replied…..
Just checked my mail now.
Are you on facebook??? and I will reply to your email later ……
Hey there Gang,
Just want to know how many of you are there on facebook???
Please will you let me know.
Yup I’m on facebook. dont worry about the name I’m the only Natalie Le Clue.
hey guys…thanx if u could add my name…that will be great!
somebody could take down my name it shaila.
you could put that..instead of s miss her.
thanx cath…..u are a great friend.
remember will be thinking of you guys on sunday.
hey natalie………how are you……..keep going strong.
u are in p.e…hay?
yup in Port Elizabeth…..
hey kerry……sorry no.i am not on face book.
keep strong.we will all pull through.
hey……i am in east london.
guess we both not going to b there for the ash lunch!
hey natalie…..ashley really looked stunning yesterday…….infact she always did.
will u keep on watching isidingo?
well me…..you c i only watch things with people i like in it…..now ashleys gone….so i dont know if i will watch.
cool….the lunch sounds great.
plz put my name 2……..as shaila.
Think I’ll only watch until Lee’s storyline has been completed. send me your e-mail address
No problem if you are not on facebook, but I have sent you a cute email to your address, please let me know if you have received it yet???
I am also only going to watch Isidingo until Ash’s Storyline is finished because after that I don’t really see the point. The person I watched out for and admired is gone.
I will send you an email soon.
Enjoy your day.
Hi Natalie, how are you doing today…me I’m fine..you guys are just amazing…the way you show your love…all because of Ash…she has tought us to love one another and to support those that are down hearted…a lesson from heaven…my best email address: email@example.com…with this address I’m reachable any time, anywhere…email me…love you lots
I am also on Facebook ( Francine Kruger)
Hope you are all well, Did you gus get my e-mail?
Cathereine please e-mail me as well, my e-mail adress is on this site. Keep strong all of you
Love you lots
I did get your email but i see it has been delayed, so please let me know if you get it????
Could you please see my comment 204 about the photo’s and let me know what you think????
Hope you are doing ok. I still miss Ash Loads and especially at night once things have carmed down.
Love you guys a loads
I wish you were here to wipe away my tears… Of course, if you were here, there wouldnt be any tears! Missing u Ash. To Graham, Claire, Lauren & loved ones, friends & fans thinking of u all & remember Ash lives on in our hearts. Be safe & happy beautiful lady, our rose.
I will not miss this lunch for anything! Thank you so so much for inviting us, and thanks to Francine. You have no idea what it means to me, as one of Ashley’s biggest fans, to meet up with her friends and fellow fans.
Is the place pretty easy to find? Can you email me a map, perhaps if possible? I’ve taken down your email address so I’ll email you.
Looking forward to seeing you on Sunday.
Hi Kim…we are here with you…in cyber space…constantly…so cheer up and tel us how your day has been and what you think of The Fab Ash Gang idea? Will you make it on Sunday? We’re meeting in Parkhurst for lunch…check the blog for timing and address details and let us know if you’d like to come…we need to book
How are you … I’m not doing too good. Tonight’s episode was very upsetting. At the end, it seemed to me that Lee & Barker had just come back from Anthea’s funeral. It was said in the YOU that had a tribute to Ashley that the very day this episode was shot, Ashley was very down, and Barker (Robert Whitehead), comforted her and they went for coffee afterwards. She then went home, and to that Pirelli Calendar Launch, and had her untimely accident that night.
This is getting more and more difficult by the day! I’m trying to be strong, but it’s not easy.
Ashley, I really miss you so much, and I hope you can forgive me as I cannot let you go. Not yet … I’m sorry.
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, I’m thinking of you always, today, and everyday.
hey paul……….u are tellingme something…….No…did that happen.
i cant believe it!
you know to days episiode was so ironical…….her mother dying…and in real life her going. i just want to cry.
the last speech she gave……..to barker…..hey man its was funny!
its strange the way the world works…hay.
u know what i think u know when you are going to go!
thats just what i think!
hey all………..why ashley!
i cant understand it…….i try avoiding the topic coz if i think to much about it my mood goes bad.
hey all……i got ur e-mails…will reply soon
Hi Paul A, im fine thanks, was in a bad space but ive moved to a better space. The Fab Ash Gang is a brilliant idea & i hope it goes from strength to strength. Im currently out of town & will only be back next week so wont be able to make it this time. Ill be there in spirit. I stay in Pta (Pierre van Ryneveld) so next time ill make it, say a big hello to all that are present. Thanks for everything, u guys are the best.
Is there anybody out there!!! Tonights episode…wish I could, like in the movies, jump into the TV and give Ash a big hug…she looked so sad and heart broken…I couldn’t stop looking at her face…her head.
What an ironic last scene of today’s episode……
Hi there guys!How I wish to be part of Sunday’s outing.Unfortunately I’m from Cape Town,but i’ll defenitely be there in spirit.I would appreciate it if you could add my name also on the letter.I hope that it’s not to forward of me.I wonder if there are more Ash fans from Cape Town.You must enjoy Sunday,i’ll think of you and I know Ash will be there in spirit too.All of you must keep well.Ash I still miss you so very much.
dear ashley… what a wonderful rolemodel you have been. what an honour to have had you on our screens! we miss you! carpe diem!!!!!
hi all, well i wish with all my heart i could have been at sundays lunch!! im in port elizabeth, so my thoughts will be with you all. what a fabulous way to celebrate asley’s memory! you guys are brilliant! anyone is welcome to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
more of us in PE. Maybe we should do something. What do you think Natalie and ash.fan?
Last night was terrible. When Lee says “Still expect her to walk in” AAGHHH isn’t that just what we all still wish and that feeling never goes away.
I wish that some much.
This feeling will never go away for me.
Missing Ash Loads.
Catherine, could i email you please????
Enjoy your day
Lots of love
Thanks a lot for your address.
Hope you are doing ok today.
Lots of love
Hey Paul A,
I also wish that I could give her a big hug too.
Don’t we all wish we could do that???
Last nights episode was really sad and ironic.
Hope you are doing ok.
Did you get my email that I sent you yesterday????
Please let me know
Lots of love
Hi Kerry, yep I got it, will reply soon…I don’t know why Fridays are always the roughest day of the week…will try to email you later.
Last night was like a premonition…it was too much…here we sit and watch Ash in a very sad way mourning over her mother…and we are mourning over her…sad…so sad.
Hi kerry gray,
I am on facebook…think you asked ealier. Catherine Kruger Webster.
Ashley…we don’t understand why….
We still look up to you! We all are missing you so dearly, still wishing you could be here to wake us all from this nightmare! We will never forget you, Rose of Isidingo! Rose of our hearts!!
I have just sent you a facebook request.
Please accept it.
I have just sent you a facebook request too.
I was pleasantly surprised to have received your friendship request! I didn’t know you were on Facebook. But I’ve accepted it. Thnk you!
I’m really, really dreading tonight’s episode … I don’t even want to THINK of next week …
Hey Paul A.,
How are you doing today? I’m doing okay, really dreading tonight’s episode! And I don’t even want to think of next week.
Are we all still on for Sunday Afternoon? Can’t wait! It’s going to be great!! Please let me know.
Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids, my thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Ashley I miss you!
Get out the tissues, the medicinal brandy, the Prozac, the lithium pils, a damp face towel, sun glasses, eye drops and lock out the cat and dog, put the baby to sleep, close the curtains, put the lights off, clear the couch, get a blanket and your favourite pillow and brace yourself. Its Isidingo time. It’s going to be very sad tonight. Just like all the other nights for the past weeks!
The Fab Ash Gang is ready! Ash is coming! Our dearest Ashley. We love you.
Paul A u rock, say the right things at the right time. Holding my breath in anticipation. Ash Fab Gang have a great time on Sunday & l will be there in spirit. Missing u Ash, my beautiful rose of SA.
Hey there Fab Ash Gang,
Tonights episode was really sad and heart breaking for me.
She was amazing as usual but you could see that she was trying to be big and brave and go on with life but it is just really HARD. I think this is what she would want us to be Big and Brave.
I am still missing her like craze. I bet all of you guys are doing the same.
Thanks Paul A for such a lovily comment just before. I agree with Kim, you Rock.
I am also dreading next week. But I was thinking at least we have the repeat on Sunday, so if we miss it we can see her again for one last time onscreen.
Hope you guys are doing ok.
My thoughts are with you all.
Mr and Mrs callie, Lauren, John, Deyon and kids, my thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Lots of love
hey paul a…….man you did say the ridht things……..for first time after ash’s death i laughed. thanx for the e-mail………i did reply.
Ashley Callie the gracious, elegant, stylish, charming, radiant & sensitive lady was brilliant tonight on Isidingo. U are forever in my heart & will always be my inspiration in life. Rest in peace my dear rose & let your star shine brightly from above. Graham, Claire, Lauren, John, family, loved ones, friends & fans my thoughts are with u all. Stax strong
Thanks for accepting my request.
I saw you and Fran were friends and that is how i knew you were on facebook.
How are you doing after tonight’s episode??? i am doing ok, just really sad and I can’t stop thinking about next week.
I really miss you loads Ash. More and more each day.
Not a problem at all! You’ve been really supportive to me recently, how could I say ‘no’?
I’m feeling very sad and down after tonight’s episode. She was so beautiful and brilliant … As usual … Gosh, I don’t want next week to come! How are we going to deal with it all over again?
I’m so looking forward to Sunday’s Lunch – to meet Francine & Paul & the rest of the Ash Fab Gang.
Hope you have a great evening!
Ashley, you were such an inspiration and great person. I’m really missing you a lot, but with all the new friends and love and support, I’m getting stronger.
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – I hope you are all doing okay. There isn’t 1 day that I don’t think of you all. My thoughts and prayers are still with you!
hey guys….tonight i went out and i was thirsty…..so i went into the shop and brought a drink called carpe diem.
Franni called me about 5:15 this afternoon to join her and Gavin (her husband) for a drink. It’s 11:58pm now…I just got home. Couldn’t bare to watch the show…I’m in denial…rather spend the evening away from the box…postpone the hurt…try and forget…but in the morning it will still be there…the whole weeks episodes will be there on Sunday, I tell myself…forget about it now…have another Black label…I promise, I watch it on Sunday…no, don’t tell me what happened, I’ll catch up on Sunday…promise…another Black Label please…
Hi Paul, I hope you’ll find the place on Sunday…if you get lost, call me 0837501108. You must come!
Love you Kerry, Natalie, Paul, Franni, Cat, s.miss her, Kim, Tanya, Ash.fan…all of you, you are close to my heart tonight.
Thank you Kerry…you make me feel warm inside…love you lots
Hi Kim, love you too, lots…you rock too babe.
hi paul a, how are you doing today. from the comments you seem to have been quite down. you are in my thoughts, always.
how is the rest of the club doing?
Hey Paul a!
Thank you for being so kind and for making us all smile again!
Hope you enjoy tomorrow and please be safe!
Ashley, we miss you so much! Still don’t understand why…and it’s really hard for us all to accept what happened. You will always be the rose of our hearts! Forever!
To Mr & Mrs Callie, Lauren, John, Deon and Kids..
May you always be blessed and know that God loves you! We are praying for you everyday and you’re in our thoughts every day! Be strong…*
CARPE DIEM, everybody.
Dear Francine, Kerry, Paul, Paul a, Natalie, S Miss Her, Ash Fan, Catherine and all the other fans,
I feel like I know all of you. I have been following you supporting each other over this difficult time. I think that’s great, being there for one another. Everytime I started writing I got to emotional and left it again. I now realise that I can’t cope with this on my own. I would if you allow me to be part of the “Fab Ash Gang”. Ashley was my role model and everything I believed in. Only a week before the accident, I had a discussion about Ashley’s brilliance as an actress. She was the reason for my watching Isidingo. She became part of my family.With movie stars it’s different. You only see them once or twice a year in a movie, but Ashley joined us every night in our own home where she spent 30 min 5 days a week. We laughed with her, we cried with her and we had supper with her. If I close my eyes I can still hear her laughter. I actually got the 2 tribute dvd’s
that was on 3 talk and top billing from the SABC.I attended her memorial service and that made me miss her even more. I had someting to eat and drink at the La Vista Social Club thinking that would make it better but, nothing seems to help.I started a rose garden and got my first rose, the Ashley Callie rose from the Hobby Expo. On the way back I hung a windchime next to my brother’s in the Fourways Memorial Gardens. My brother was in a car accident in 2003 at the age of 35. Like Ashley it wasn’t his fault. He never regained consciousness and was declared brain dead 4 days later. We decided to donate his organs and now there is 7 people, happy to have had a second lease on live. Just like Ashley touched millions of hearts. Therefor I see her as my donar. I got and learned so much from her and she wasn’t even aware of it. We pay tribute to him by lighting candles and hanging windchimes. It helps for a while but the pain never goes away.My father was alo killed in a car accident on his way to work. It helps if you have people around that cares and understands and that is why you guys are so special. I would if possible like to know what the plans are for sunday. I realy would like to join in and also give my support. Most importandly to pay tribute to our friend, Ashley. Thinking of you all.
May she rest in peace.
(My e-mail address is email@example.com and I would like to hear from you.)
Hey ash fan,
Hope you are well. I’m doing okay today, a little bit better. Gosh, I’m really dreading next week’s “Isidingo”… I don’t even want Monday to come!
How are you holding up? Did you say you got my email? As I never had a reply. Please let me know as it would be great to hear back from you.
How are you doing? You sounded very down last night, and understandably so. Hang in there friend, I know we are all supporting each other during this tragic, truly tragic time. Are you feeling any better today?
I’m doing okay, I guess … Last night, was, again, very upsetting. And I’m dreading next week ……..
I can’t wait for our Lunch get together today. I spoke to Francine today, and I have found where the place is. It’s going to be really cool. Ashley would’ve been proud!!
Ashley, I still don’t understand why you were taken from us … I hope you can forgive me, as I am unable to let you go. They say that time heals, but it seems to be getting worse for me. Rest in Peace my beautiful, brilliant Ashley.
To Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids – not a day goes by that I don’t think of you all. I hope you are all doing okay and my thoughts and prayers are with you today, everday. God bless.
Ashley’s devastated fan.
Hey Tanya *
How are you doing? Hope you are doing well. How brilliant was Ashley last night? Did you get my email yesterday? Plse reply soonest.
I’m dreading next week ………………………….
Ashley, I miss you more and more and I cannot let you go!
Hi Georgene, welcome to the gang…yes please…join us tomrrow at 12 at Batuke, cnr 4th avenue an 10th street in Parkhurst…we would love to have you there. We will be having lunch and afterwards have a short memorial at the crash site and plant a cross with our names on it…call me on 0837501108 if you need directions.
good morning to the fab ash gang. to those meeting up for lunch and the memorial, you are in my thoughts and i will there in spirit!!H
ashley… as i watch the sunrise, i think of you. how many times have you been the sunshine in the lives of your fans. and how many times you will still be our sunshine as we will continue to remember you… always… forever… CARPE DIEM!!!!!!!
Hey guys! Enjoy the lunch today!
Morning Fab Ash Gang Have a wonderful day at the lunch & memorial. Paul A be so kind & add my name, i would greatly appreciate it. Will be there in spirit & when im back ill go a visit the accident scene & see the cross & pay my respects. Take care &Ash knows how much we all are missing her & as she would say CARPE DIEM
Hey Paul a,
Thanx for your reply. I will let you know if I need directions. Keep your chin up. I know it’s not going to be easy. We will be there for each other. Looking forward to meeting you.
Morning guys…it’s a lovely day to honour a Great lady…I’m sure we will all be in the same frame of mind and spirit…we will put everybody’s name on the cross…we’ll mention all your names while we are there…think of us…support us in the spirit…
Hey Fab Ash Gang,
I thoughts will be with you guys at lunch and at the memomrial and i will be there in heart and spirit.
It does help to share. It may seem hard at first and difficult to convey but it does ease a bit of the pain.
My brother was murdered 13 years ago tomorrow night, and I will be lighting candles in memory of him. He was 19. I have lit a candle today for Ash for my share today. Will be there is heart and soul if not in body. Remember my toast hey Paul a.
You are very welcome to email me if you need a shoulder, any of firstname.lastname@example.org
Keep strong. Keep the memories alive.
Hi Fab Ash Gang,
I’m feeling strong today! With all the new amazing friends I’ve made over the last month and a bit, the support, has been nothing short of amazing! I’m blessed to have made friends with you all.
Isn’t it truly amazing that, through this terrible tragedy, such great things have happened. As my good friend Natalie says, that is the Magic of Ash! Ashley would have been proud …
Ashley, I’m trying to cope, but it’s not easy. With the friends I’ve made, I am getting a little stronger. I miss you dearly.
Dearest Lauren, John, Mr & Mrs Callie, Deyon & Kids. Everyday I think of you all and you are constantly in my thoughts nd prayers. Today, I’ll be praying even harder as friends unite and celebrate Ashley’s beautiful life and the impact she had on our lives. I hope you are all doing okay and I’m thinking of you today, everyday.
Looking forward to the luncheon just now.
CARPE DIEM GUYS!
Ashley’s #1 Fan … ALWAYS!!!
hey all….how did the lunch go?
my thoughts where with you guys!
let me know how it went?
The lunch was cool…Paul, Franni, Georgene and her two lovely girls were there, including me…we had wine, cokes, coffee and juice and then had salad, cuscus, fillet, salmon and Paul finished off with desert. We spoke about Ash, our feelings, personal things and about you guys that couldn’t make it. I made a white cross with “Ashley” writen across it. We then wrote all the gang’s names on it with a permanent black coki pen we got from a shop across the road…we borrowed the pen from a guy named David…we then drove to the corner of Linden Rd/3rd Street and Tana Rd (Linden Rd changes into 3 Street where it crosses Tana Rd – there is a traffic light)…it was pouring with rain…we planted the cross and tied a bunch of roses to it with a ribbon…took lots of pics…we’ll stick them on Franni’s site…the mood was weird…the rain masked our feelings…I felt uncomfortable standing their…I sort of relived the crash…could hear tyres squealing…the sound of the impact fading into bits and pieces falling on the ground…and then the silence…sorry to be so graphic but this has been playing off in my mind ever since it happened…every time I think of Ash, the crash takes place…that is why I had to go and find closure to this whole sagga…
The lunch was really nice. It was great to have finally met Franni, Paul A., and Georgene. She came with her 2 daughters, which was nice.
As Paul A. mentioned, we spent the day discussing a whole lot of things. From personal, to work related, and of course, discussing our dear Ashley, and how we were coping and how she made a difference in our lives.
Lastly, we went to the crash site … Sob!!! … where our dear Ashley had her accident. We laid the cross there with the roses and paid our respects. It was very difficult for me, but I had to do it.
S Miss Her, I added your name on the cross.
Missing you so so so much, Ashley!!
Your fan, always,
hey gang. i went down to hobie beach in pe early this morning to watch the sunrise. as i mentioned in previous comment the sunrise reminds me of ashley. brightening up the screens with her beauty. thanks paul and paul a for sharing todays experience with us… wish so much i could have been there!!TH
hey paul yes i did get your email. i replied about a week ago, didnt you get it?LET
hey georgene, welcome to the gang! ashley touched so many lives by being on our screens. this site and what i hear from her friends, shows how much she was adored! we will stand together and always remember ashley callie! you are also welcome to email me on email@example.com
To the gang,
We enjoyed lunch and it was nice to meet all of you. We exchanged a lot of info and it was very surprising how much we have in common.The weather didn’t play along but we managed to fit under 1 umbrella. I mailed the photos we took to Francine to post on her blog. Thanx a lot to all of you, I do feel more at peace 2 nite. Hope you are all doing OK. Will be thinking of you. Hang in there.
L O L
Hey Ash Fan!
No, my friend, I never received your reply … I thought something was funny. Please re-send it. I’ll keep an eye out and let you know.
I must agree with Georgene, I do feel a little bit better today, and it was really great yesterday, and nice that we all have some things in common and got a long well. PIty that yourself, Natalie, and S Miss Her are so far and could not be there.
The worst part was going to the crash site. Georgene, it was the right spot, I checked the map on the People magazine. I felt so so down yesterday when I saw the picture, as remember, we were not sure if we were at the right spot. Sob!
Hope you all have a great day.
Missing Ashley staxs and not looking 4ward to this weeks’ “Isidingo”.
ashley… always thinking of you… Carpe Diem!!!!
hi paul, okay ill resend it later today. thinking of you my friend. hang in
georgene, how are you doing?
rest of the gang, how is everyone doing today?
Morning Fab Ash Gang, doing okay until i opened the news paper. Brace yourselves for an emmotional week as far as Isidingo is concerned. The final farewell in the form of Lee funeral takes place on the 9. Otherwise u must all have a good day, u are all in my thoughts.
Morning Ash fan,
Doing OK. The support helps a lot. Just have to stay busy and not analyse so much. You coping?
Thanx Paul, without you knowing where it was we would never have found it. I am realy glad we got together yesterday but also regret that we couldn’t have all of her fans there.
We will keep her memory alive, always
hey paul..thanx for adding my name.
it means a lot.you r right….no looking forward to isidingo this week……oh my!
its going to b hard.
i read that friday the news will be reveald.
thanx to all for putting my name
Posted some pics from the lunch and the memorial on the blog. Hope you are all doing well
I have just gone onto the blog and saw the pics.
It looks like you guys had an awesome time.
Thank you for adding my name. I will be at the next lunch for sure.
I have sent you an email this morning.
Please let me know if you got it.
i am doing fine. How are you doing???
Hey Paul, Paul A, Natalie, S miss Her and Ash Fan,
I ahve sent you guys an email.
Please let me know if you have got it.
Hope you are all well.
Hey gang, seems to be somethin wrond with me mailbox.
Could you e-mail me at firstname.lastname@example.org instead.
I have sent you an email to your new address.
Please let me know if you have received it.
Hi Franni & Paul A & the gang. I cant believe what im reading on this memorial site for Ash, its sick! Thanks for putting them in their place & keeping Ashley possitive spirit alive. Hope u are well & missing Ash so so much but keeping her possitive attitude in life alive.Take care & u all in my thoughts
Have you seen my blog yet? Thanks for your support, it is appreciated. Please e-mail me at email@example.com or firstname.lastname@example.org
Please visit my blog , http://wwww.inmemoryofashleycallie.blogspot.com
I would appreciate it if you posted your own tribute.
Thank you for being there for us and being positive
Love you Lots
Hi Franni, thanks for your mail address, i will make use of it. Have seen your blog, very beautiful tribute from a great friend, Ash would be so greatfull to you for that. Hope you are coping from day to day, Ash was a great fan & some days are hard so i can imagine that things are sometimes more difficult than others. Thinking of you & be strong & remember the wonderful times you were lucky enough to have had with your great friend Ashley Have a great day & will keep in touch. Lots of love Kim
to posts 296, 297,298,299, Who ever you are get off our memorial site and stop leaving your crap on here.You are disrespecting the memory of a very dear friend of mine and i don’t appreciate it . If you have nothing better to do than slander her name and write rubbish on her site then get the F****ck Off and go and write your rubbish elsewhere. Peole come to this site to ay tribute to the Memory of a great actress as well as friend. Now Please leave and don’t ever come back to this site again unless you have something positive to say. If i see you back again i will take measures to hve you removed. A vey annoyed and angry friend and Fan
Snowlily, i think its spam mail. We need to contact the webmaster so that they can add a anti-spam filter to this site.
Its the one where you have to verify a code before your post is published.
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